No one ever changes.
They think they do but they don't.
"Whatever you are now, you will always will be. If you are the depressed type now that's all that you'll ever be. If you're the mindess happy type, that's the way you'll be when you grow up... You may lose some weight, your face may clear up, get a body tan, a breast enlargement, sex change, makes no difference. from in front; from behind; whether you're 13 or 50 - you'll always be the same." - Palindrom (movie)Interesting quote from this quirky movie. It mirrors what I've been thinking. That essentially you'll be you. I've never seen anyone change and I've never been able to change myself. I think many women hope that their man will change or that they can change them. Sure, we learn and adapt after making mistakes (once a cheater, always a cheater? not so) but you'll revert to what you fundamentally were.
Many christians believe that they change completely after they are 'born again'. I didn't, and I never noticed anyone around me change their inherent behaviours either. I've never seen it. People don't change! But I'm sure there are some exceptions. My parents are the same sad weirdos they were 20 years ago. So are all my brothers and sisters! (not weird or sad though - mostly) I think some people may change their values and stuff after seeing how fresh it is to follow bible principles, but if you're a selfish bum... you'll probably become a selfish christian bum.
Tellin it like I think it is